*this post is not to show off how gd my bf is… BUT to help myself to rem why are we together in the 1st place… *
i decided tt i shld rediscover BH again.. i looked at him from a different angle and recalled what mks him so different from the rest. oh well.. BH is not good looking… neither is he rich… he’s a very simple guy… precisely.. so simple tt nobody will thnk tt he’s outstanding which is an unfortunate thing…haha… but i guess tt mks me a special girl coz i did see the beauty out of a simple person.
i am someone who hides my feelings alot… i mean i don’t really like to talk abt BH to my frens…unless i dun have a choice…haha… even if i talk abt BH, most of the time also abt bad things.. right? heee… feel so guilty… so… i want to make loving someone as a decision, feeling is too shallow?
right… i don’t intend to write a chim entry coz it’s meant to be read simply.. as love is simple and thus, loving a simple person is even more simple… :smile1
Qualities abt BH which makes him a good bf: (things i discovered this weekend)
1) He is SHARING. i like it tt he not only loves me BUT he loves my family too. On sat, he treated my whole family for dinner! it’s nothing impressive coz it was those ‘zhu cao’ stall near my place BUT it’s the thots tt matters!
2) He is GENEROUS. After dinner on sat, my sis, BH and I took a long walk to Sheng Siong at Serangoon.. so my sis wanted to buy alot of snacks and we didn’t bring any money.. BH was like ‘juz buy, i can pay..’ .. we paid him back after we got home.. but once again… it’s the thots tt matters!
3) He takes care of me. Well… not tt i’m sick and he brought me to the doctor… BUT i realised tt BH is like my extra pair of eyes… sadly, i need 3pairs of eyes ( my eyes, Bh’s and my specs).. he wld tell me to be careful when i walk… not to step on puddles of water or wooden planks.. nice feeling to be cared for.
4) He RESPECTS what i say. i like it that in whatever decision he makes, the final and the majority of the vote comes from me. today, BH wanted to sign up for something… so after the MALE sales person finished his ‘speech’.. BH was like ‘so do you think i shld get it?’ … i didn’t expect him to ask me ( due to male ego) BUT he did… haha… nice feeling….
5) He likes to go out during wkend. this is the most ‘duh’ quality BUT i dunno how to put it.. haha.. today, we went to gym… was quite tired BUT he was like ” let’s go out walk walk… ” i like it tt he doesn’t wanna nua at home on a wkend even though he’s hard at work for the week! :thumbup:
can’t think of anymore qualities for now… BUT i’ll continue to re-discover him :beam1
“The more I learn, The more I love
The more my heart cant get enough
Thats when I love you,
When I love you no matter what”
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