1) Group Project
let’s see… i was doing a project with this grp of pple… pple who i dunno v well… and i realised tt i did quite alot of stuff… normally, i’ll voice it out… BUT this time i kept quiet…. coz… i thnk… i’m in no position to comment.. afterall, they ‘took’ me in when i’m groupless…
so i was thinking abt how *some* pple didnt do too much work… so…. i came out with a conclusion that… a small thing to others may be a BIG thing to me …you cant deny tt everyone did some work and met up for discussions…. BUT why do you feel that u are doing lots of work… then rem to think again.. afterall… in a grpwork.. compromising is key…
maybe u already knew this.. BUT it took me awhile to convinced myself abt this..
2) Relationship
i dunno abt how other couples… BUT for BH and i.. he loves to say “why muz you always mk a big fuss over a small thing?” right… so tt’s how arguements start… usually we are very calm.. and we settle it by finding a problem and working out a solution, hopefully we won’t come to such a situations again..
like sometimes, you noe tt such a problem can’t be avoided… so…b4 i start to tell him abt my unhappiness… u can imagine me saying thngs extremely bluntly…. “i noe tt this is a small thing to you… BUT to me it’s a BIG thing… coz i’m a gal and you are a guy, our brain functions differently… i noe tt it’s damn irritating… BUT i can’t help feeling this way! i would really love to have a dick.. so i won’t feel like crap now… “
yeah man.. so after mking the above statement… thngs also get better… coz… at least he’ll put himself in my shoes…
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the bottomline: think twice b4 you say something.. coz a small thing to you may mean a big thing to someone else :wink1 (it’s juz like — you may mean nothing to the world, but you mean the world to someone) forgot the exact quote
tt’s what i learnt this week :blush1
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