{"id":432,"date":"2006-07-16T23:16:30","date_gmt":"2006-07-16T15:16:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/loveactually.fakedevil.com\/?p=432"},"modified":"2006-07-16T23:16:30","modified_gmt":"2006-07-16T15:16:30","slug":"reflection-love-is-not-a-feeling-its-a-decision","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/secret.6eptember.com\/?p=432","title":{"rendered":"Reflection: Love is not a feeling, it&#8217;s a decision"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>*this post is not to show off how gd my bf is&#8230; BUT to help myself to rem why are we together in the 1st place&#8230; *<\/p>\n<p>i <strong>decided <\/strong>tt i shld rediscover BH again.. i looked at him from a different angle and recalled what mks him so different from the rest. oh well.. BH is not good looking&#8230; neither is he rich&#8230; he&#8217;s a very simple guy&#8230; precisely.. so simple tt nobody will thnk tt he&#8217;s outstanding which is an unfortunate thing&#8230;haha&#8230; but i guess tt mks me a special girl coz i did see the beauty out of a simple person.<\/p>\n<p>i am someone who  hides my feelings alot&#8230; i mean i don&#8217;t really like to talk abt BH to my frens&#8230;unless i dun have a choice&#8230;haha&#8230; even if i talk abt BH, most of the time also abt bad things.. right? heee&#8230; feel so guilty&#8230;  so&#8230; i want to make loving someone as a decision, feeling is too shallow?<\/p>\n<p>right&#8230; i don&#8217;t intend to write a chim entry coz it&#8217;s meant to be read simply.. as love is simple and thus, loving a simple person is even more simple&#8230; :smile1 <\/p>\n<p>Qualities abt BH which makes him a good bf: (things i discovered this weekend)<\/p>\n<p>1) He is SHARING. i like it tt he not only loves me BUT he loves my family too. On sat, he treated my whole family for dinner! it&#8217;s nothing impressive coz it was those &#8216;zhu cao&#8217; stall near my place BUT it&#8217;s the thots tt matters!<\/p>\n<p>2) He is GENEROUS. After dinner on sat, my sis, BH and I took a long walk to Sheng Siong at Serangoon.. so my sis wanted to buy alot of snacks and we didn&#8217;t bring any money.. BH was like &#8216;juz buy, i can pay..&#8217; .. we paid him back after we got home.. but once again&#8230; it&#8217;s the thots tt matters!<\/p>\n<p>3) He takes care of me. Well&#8230; not tt i&#8217;m sick and he brought me to the doctor&#8230; BUT i realised tt BH is like my extra pair of eyes&#8230; sadly, i need 3pairs of eyes ( my eyes, Bh&#8217;s and my specs).. he wld tell me to be careful when i walk&#8230; not to step on puddles of water or wooden planks.. nice feeling to be cared for.<\/p>\n<p>4) He RESPECTS what i say. i like it that in whatever decision he makes, the final and the majority of the vote comes from me. today, BH wanted to sign up for something&#8230; so after the MALE sales person finished his  &#8216;speech&#8217;.. BH was like &#8216;so do you think i shld get it?&#8217; &#8230; i didn&#8217;t expect him to ask me ( due to male ego) BUT he did&#8230; haha&#8230; nice feeling&#8230;. <\/p>\n<p>5) He likes to go out during wkend. this is the most &#8216;duh&#8217; quality BUT i dunno how to put it.. haha.. today, we went to gym&#8230; was quite tired BUT he was like &#8221; let&#8217;s go out walk walk&#8230; &#8221; i like it tt he doesn&#8217;t wanna nua at home on a wkend even though he&#8217;s hard at work for the week! :thumbup:<\/p>\n<p>can&#8217;t think of anymore qualities for now&#8230; BUT i&#8217;ll continue to re-discover him :beam1 <\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;The more I learn, The more I love<br \/>\nThe more my heart cant get enough<br \/>\nThats when I love you,<br \/>\nWhen I love you no matter what&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>*this post is not to show off how gd my bf is&#8230; BUT to help myself to rem why are we together in the 1st place&#8230; * i decided tt i shld rediscover BH again.. i looked at him from a different angle and recalled what mks him so different from the rest. oh well.. 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