1) Group Project<\/p>\n
let’s see… i was doing a project with this grp of pple… pple who i dunno v well… and i realised tt i did quite alot of stuff… normally, i’ll voice it out… BUT this time i kept quiet…. coz… i thnk… i’m in no position to comment.. afterall, they ‘took’ me in when i’m groupless… <\/p>\n
so i was thinking abt how *some* pple didnt do too much work… so…. i came out with a conclusion that… a small thing to others may be a BIG thing to me <\/strong> …you cant deny tt everyone did some<\/em> work and met up for discussions…. BUT why do you feel that u are doing lots of work… then rem to think again.. afterall… in a grpwork.. compromising is key…<\/p>\n maybe u already knew this.. BUT it took me awhile to convinced myself abt this..<\/p>\n 2) Relationship<\/p>\n i dunno abt how other couples… BUT for BH and i.. he loves to say “why muz you always mk a big fuss over a small thing?” <\/em>right… so tt’s how arguements start… usually we are very calm.. and we settle it by finding a problem and working out a solution, hopefully we won’t come to such a situations again..<\/p>\n like sometimes, you noe tt such a problem can’t be avoided… so…b4 i start to tell him abt my unhappiness… u can imagine me saying thngs extremely bluntly…. “i noe tt this is a small thing to you… BUT to me it’s a BIG thing… coz i’m a gal and you are a guy, our brain functions differently… i noe tt it’s damn irritating… BUT i can’t help feeling this way! i would really love to have a dick.. so i won’t feel like crap now… “<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n yeah man.. so after mking the above statement… thngs also get better… coz… at least he’ll put himself in my shoes…<\/p>\n ————————————- tt’s what i learnt this week :blush1<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" 1) Group Project let’s see… i was doing a project with this grp of pple… pple who i dunno v well… and i realised tt i did quite alot of stuff… normally, i’ll voice it out… BUT this time i kept quiet…. coz… i thnk… i’m in no position to comment.. afterall, they ‘took’ me […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/secret.6eptember.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/361"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/secret.6eptember.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/secret.6eptember.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/secret.6eptember.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/secret.6eptember.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=361"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/secret.6eptember.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/361\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/secret.6eptember.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=361"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/secret.6eptember.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=361"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/secret.6eptember.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=361"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nthe bottomline: think twice b4 you say something.. coz a small thing to you may mean a big thing to someone else :wink1 (it’s juz like — you may mean nothing to the world, but you mean the world to someone) forgot the exact quote<\/em><\/p>\n